.CHIVALRY .

Chivalry… What is this? it still has the same meaning in 2016 as it did a thousand years ago. So what has changed? have both genders forgotten how to be with each other. Have we lost touch. This subject may be more uncomfortable for some more than others, it is a controversial subject and one … Continue Reading

.Get out of your own way.

When you chase a cat it runs away. This is precisely how life works. It’s a little thing called control and human beings are really good at it! In more ways than one human beings have been taking matters into their own hands for what seems like all of eternity! We want something, so we … Continue Reading

Less Trying . More Living

You try to hold water in your hands. You kneel down to scoop the water from the beautiful flowing river’s bank. You hold both hands so tightly together with such resistance and you scoop that water into your hands. Do you manage to keep that water in your hands? Does that water start to seep … Continue Reading

.REJECTION.

Ouch! This one hurts. Rejection is one of the most painful experiences a human being can endure. Rejection is also inevitable. Unfortunately in this wicked wild world we live in, we have to endure pain – rejection being one of many things that comes to mind when I think of painful situations. The fact is … Continue Reading

.FIND YOUR PEOPLE.

Let me ask you something. What company are you keeping? Strange question? Or extremely valid question? This question right here was the exact question I was asked three years ago and the exact question that I never forgot …. What company am I keeping? Who am I choosing to spend my time with? This wasn’t … Continue Reading

.Infinitree.

A few months ago, my darling friends and i thought it would be a great idea to go to laneway. Laneway being a music festival where people get all kinds of fucked up, forget about society and expectations for a moment and drift off to the sweet sound of some of the best musicians in … Continue Reading

.Talk To Strangers .

It’s 2017 and boy do we live in the fast lane!! Everything these days seems to be moving at lightning speed! Our phones have taken over our brains and a vast majority of our precious time, and I fear we are beginning to forget how to communicate. It’s so ironic. As much as I believe … Continue Reading

.Quit comparing.

It’s no secret that we are living in a world now where social media has become a huge part of our lives. This can go two ways. It can either inspire us, or deplete us. With social media like Instagram and Facebook being somewhat of a shrine for the world to see and for us … Continue Reading

.GUILT.

Guilt … the ‘gift’ that keeps on giving – that painful, destructive and largely unhelpful emotion. I have to say I have never felt the pull to write about guilt, until now. I write about things as they come up in my life, and others around me. Guilt is a subject that has been coming … Continue Reading

• THE ‘BEFORE 30’ MYTH •

I really can’t tell you how many times in my life I have heard… but you’re nearly 30! Shouldn’t you have kids before 30? Shouldn’t you have a house before 30? Shouldn’t you do this and that before 30? This, my friend, is up there with one of the most BS conversations you could ever … Continue Reading